http://goodlifediva.com/blog/2010/03/25/connecting-101-get-out-of-your-head/#utm_source=feed&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=feed Reflections of a mom living the Good Life Wed, 07 Apr 2010 04:17:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://goodlifediva.com/blog/2010/03/25/connecting-101-get-out-of-your-head/comment-page-1/#comment-118 goodlifediva Fri, 26 Mar 2010 18:11:36 +0000 http://goodlifediva.com/blog/?p=520#comment-118 Omega, it means so much to me that you left a comment. I know exactly what you mean by having the conversation and the rejection. If I'm honest, I've spent a lot of my life there. This year can be different though. This is a year of NO regrets. We can make a decision to be uncomfortable and do what's going to keep us moving forward. I challenge you to start being the one to initiate the conversation with the expectation that they want to talk to you. Keep me posted. Omega, it means so much to me that you left a comment. I know exactly what you mean by having the conversation and the rejection. If I’m honest, I’ve spent a lot of my life there. This year can be different though. This is a year of NO regrets. We can make a decision to be uncomfortable and do what’s going to keep us moving forward. I challenge you to start being the one to initiate the conversation with the expectation that they want to talk to you. Keep me posted.

]]> http://goodlifediva.com/blog/2010/03/25/connecting-101-get-out-of-your-head/comment-page-1/#comment-116 Omega Cooper Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:06:23 +0000 http://goodlifediva.com/blog/?p=520#comment-116 Kendra, I know exactly what you mean to be "up in you head". I live there. I have missed many opportunities and friendships because of my stay there. What that really means is to prejudge others. Before I talk to people, I have already had the conversation and the rejection. I am working on this. I have to remember when I am in my head is not to prejudge people. Let THEM get a chance to communicate with me. I like that post by Chris Brogan. I think about myself. I go many places by myself and sometimes I wish someone would initiate a conversation with me. I know I now need to be the initiator because someone else is wishing I initiate a conversation with them. Kendra, I know exactly what you mean to be “up in you head”. I live there. I have missed many opportunities and friendships because of my stay there. What that really means is to prejudge others. Before I talk to people, I have already had the conversation and the rejection. I am working on this. I have to remember when I am in my head is not to prejudge people. Let THEM get a chance to communicate with me. I like that post by Chris Brogan. I think about myself. I go many places by myself and sometimes I wish someone would initiate a conversation with me. I know I now need to be the initiator because someone else is wishing I initiate a conversation with them.

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